Do people (and by people I mean immediate family) think I have no feelings?
My grandson and I went shopping earlier today and then ran by Zazby's to grab something quick to eat. No sooner had we pulled in the driveway and started to unload the car when he gets a call. He needs to be home by 5 for cake and ice cream. It's 4:15 PM now. So, we both ate in a hurry (I didn't finish mine; I'll get to come back to COLD food) and I took him home. Apparently his mom's side of the family is coming over for cake and ice cream; since I didn't get a call I guess I wasn't invited.
As Dakota got out of the car he said, "I'll TRY to come over tomorrow, but I may have some homework to do". Guess that means I'll be getting up early to go out and clean the pool. He was supposed to come by early this morning to do it, but Jason decided to take them out on the boat instead. Which is okay, they need to enjoy their time as a family.
I, on the other hand, get invited to go out to dinner at a Japanese steakhouse - neither of which I like. I'll probably skip out on that, but that means I won't get to spend any time with my grandkids. Such is life.
Seriously though, it is hurtful. I don't care if they spend time with her family and don't invite me, but GEEZ, don't TELL ME!
Reminds me of last Christmas when they couldn't even bother to buy me or Justin a gift, much less a Christmas card. They NEVER buy me or Justin anything for OUR birthdays. Yet they can order (in advance mind you) her dad some cigars for HIS birthday. Tyler happened to let that slip out last year when I went to pick him up from school one day. He thought her dad would come pick him up since his cigars they ordered for his birthday had arrived.
Karma people, it will come back to bite you in the ass every time!
